Theme: Those who follow Jesus whole-heartedly want to show the world they love him.

Scripture: Mark 8:34-38

Clip Location: 1:31:30 through 1:34:15 Preview All Clips

Synopsis: Police drag Dave off the Yankee Stadium infield. Mayor Rudy Giuliani calls for Dave’s release. Dave returns to beg Linda in front of the packed stadium to take him back. He loves her madly and promises to change so they can make a life together. Linda accepts on the condition Dave kiss her in front of everyone. He does and the crowd goes nuts. Warning! This clip contains an objectionable word—the kind that might be heard on prime time TV.)

Gospel Filter: This scene, which sends hopeless romantics in the audience into a paroxysm of passion, can be used to raise the question: Do you openly show others how you feel about Christ? The Son of God died so we might have eternal life, and his children should naturally exhibit the devotion, desperation, and public display of affection that Adam Sandler acts out in this clip. Discuss how our love for Christ might manifest itself in everyday life for the world to see.

Discussion Questions:

Why was it important to Linda to have Dave kiss her in front of everyone?

How does it feel to have a boyfriend/girlfriend show or proclaim their affection for you in public? What does it say when someone doesn’t want to "claim" you in public?

How is a relationship with Christ similar to this aspect of a dating relationship? Do you make a habit of identifying yourself with Jesus in public? Why or why not?

Read aloud Mark 8:34-38. Does this promise frighten you? Why or why not? Why might someone be "ashamed" of Christ?

How has Jesus proven himself to be more loving and faithful than any boyfriend or girlfriend?

Can a person love Christ without telling anyone? Why or why not? How often do you think we need to talk about Jesus to others?

What are some natural ways we can display our love for Christ for the world to see?