Delegate or DieAre you a one-man-band when it comes to small group leadership? Do you perform all the duties while the members of your group sit on the sidelines? The expression "delegate or die" rings true for everyone who's ever led a small group. The... Likes [8]Comments [0] TAGS: small group health, delegation, small group leadership
Real World HumilityThe ambition to lead -- to advance to the front of the line -- is such a daunting notion that I wonder why sane people would consider such a thing. After all, we've watched for years as people have grown less and less trusting of their leaders. Why is... Likes [2]Comments [2] TAGS: small group health, humility
Dealing With Problem PeopleAs I sat in our small group, I could have cut the tension with a knife. That night's discussion had gone great until one of our members, who had a difficult personality to begin with, had just slammed the proverbial door in the face of another... Likes [11]Comments [1] TAGS: small group health, conflict, egrs
Hungry... Full... or Just Right?Have you ever been hungry? Okay, that's probably a dumb question. But think about how hunger affects you. When I'm hungry, I'm irritable, and I have difficulty focusing on anything but my hunger… and what and when I'll eat next. Now, consider when... Likes [2]Comments [0] TAGS: small group health, small group leadership
Moving From Patterns to PracticesHave you ever envisioned what it looks like for a small group to bear the weight of spiritual friendships? What carries a small group experience from week to week without crumbling under the weight of conflict, pain… in short, people ? Sustainability... Likes [3]Comments [0] TAGS: small group health, practices
Keep It CleanSmall groups are messy. People show up late, forget important dates (or food!) and refuse to be flexible. They say inconsiderate things, get offended, and hold grudges. They're not open enough, too open, or unpredictable. Small groups are messy...... Likes [30]Comments [3] TAGS: small group health, conflict, forgiveness
The Importance of Good QuestionsWe love a great discussion, and we suspect you do, too — even if you’re not used to having it during a small-group session. And as with any great discussion, you’re not always sure where it’s headed. That’s the wonder of it. But lack of direction can... Likes [3]Comments [1] TAGS: leadership, small group health